common disbeliefs in dialogue

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Here are some common ones:

  • You believe you should help someone, but don’t.
  • You believe you should apologize, but don’t.
  • You believe you should stay late to finish up on a commitment, but go home instead.
  • You say yes when you know you should say no, then hope no one follows up to see if you keep your commitment.
  • You believe you should talk to someone about concerns you have with him or her, but don’t.
  • You do less than your share and think you should acknowledge it, but say nothing knowing no one else will bring it up either.
  • You believe you should listen respectfully to feedback, but become defensive instead.
  • You see problems with a plan someone presents and think you should speak up, but don’t.
  • You fail to complete an assignment on time and believe you should let others know, but don’t.
  • You know you have information a coworker could use, but keep it to yourself.

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